A woman was very unhappy with her neighbour. She always felt that the neibhour does not bother about cleanliness.
She complained to her visiting friend,
“ You should see how dirty she maintains her house. It is almost a disgrace to live in the same locality as her’s. Take a look at the cloths she has hung out on the hangers. Look at the towel there, see the black streaks on it”
The friend walked up to the window and said, “I think the cloths are pretty clean my dear friend. Look at your window. The black streaks are on your window”
Moral:
It is better to correct ourselves, before finding fault with others.
One must not magnify the faults of others. We must always look at the brighter side of things in life. We must always look if there is something good about a person and we must appreciate about it. I also feel that by speaking badly of others, we are actually downgrading ourselves and it also reflects our own character of not adjusting to the situation.
ReplyDeleteThere's no sense being angry and blaming anyone else if we were the ones who created the principal cause of our problem.
Well said Venkat. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteRaja